Why Change Feels So Hard

How To Make It Stick

I wanted to share some thoughts about change and transformation.

When life feels uncomfortable—whether it’s emotions running high, a situation that just isn’t working, or the weight of stress—a breakthrough looks very appealing. The problem is, emotions (and results) come in cycles of highs and lows. When the pain eases a little, we often tell ourselves, “this will pass” and pull back from making the changes we know are needed.

That’s why so many people get caught in the same repeating patterns. We resist change, even when we know it could improve our lives. Humans are hard wired for familiarity and change brings uncertainty.

I know this because I’ve been there. For years, I tried to change everything around me—other people, strategies, tactics—without looking at myself. It wasn’t until I attended a two-day intensive that everything shifted. That experience transformed my life into one of abundance, peace, and joy.

Of course, struggles still come, but the difference is this: I now have the tools to navigate them. Over 25 years ago, when my mentor retired and handed her material off to me, that life-changing intensive became what is now the 48 Hour Breakthrough™. Since then, I’ve been guiding others through their own transformations—and I know if you’re ready, you can do it too.

Steps to Begin Making Lasting Change

If you’re feeling stuck, here are a few helpful steps you can start with today:

  1. Get Honest with Yourself
    Identify what isn’t working. Is it a business system, a relationship dynamic, your daily habits? Clarity is the first step to change.
  2. Stop Waiting for Comfort
    Waiting until things “calm down” only leads to repeating cycles. Change happens when you move through discomfort, not around it.
  3. Focus on What You Can Control
    Instead of trying to fix others, look inward. Small shifts in your mindset, actions, and energy ripple outward to everything else.
  4. Create Space for New Possibilities
    When you release what’s not working, you make room for something better. This might mean setting boundaries, saying “no,” or trying a new approach.
  5. Seek Support and Accountability
    Change rarely happens in isolation. Surround yourself with mentors, coaches, or communities that hold you to your highest vision.

Your Invitation

The 48 Hour Breakthrough™ is a two-day immersive experience designed to help you cut through the noise, release what’s holding you back, and step into a new way of living and leading.

If you’ve been waiting for the right moment, this is it. Freedom and transformation are closer than you think—sometimes, just on the other side of a single decision.

👉 Learn more and join us at the 48 Hour Breakthrough™

You don’t have to keep repeating the same cycles. You can create the change you’ve been craving—and I would be honored to walk that journey with you.

Talk soon,
Lora